For Those Of Us That Feel Everything So Deeply — Thought Catalog

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SayLuiiiisFor those of us who can’t let it go, fumbling over our words and apologies we push and push and push. For those of us who can’t turn off our watery eyes, years of memories and residual insecurities that maybe we aren’t all we’re cracked up to be tearing ourselves down. For those of us…

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Dying of a broken heart

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I had a friend whose dad was really sick and passed away, 3x days later his mum passed away.  He lost his parents within 3x days of each other.  He believes she died from a broken heart.

Can you die from a broken heart?   PJ-AT514A_HEART_NS_20100208194949

You watch a patient move between life and death ,there’s something very definite, very distinct that leaves their body when their heart stops. They lose this essence of who they are. And I do believe that the essence of what leaves them is their soul.

Dying of a broken heart might sound like the stuff Hollywood movies are made from but scientists now believe sudden intense emotions like grief, panic or even happiness can shock your body into a fatal heart condition.

Heart is a precious thing, it loves to much, gives to much and suffers in the end.

 

 

If I could go back…..

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If I could go back and tell my younger self………….

Go chase what you think was yours and hold on so tight and don’t let go.

Don’t go back and look for it…. its not the same anymore, it will just break your heart and you will get laughed in the face.

Find someone that will love you for you.. someone that will love your giving heart and not think you are a joke. Someone that will want to spend every minute with you, laughing and talking.

Don’t waste time on people that couldn’t care less about you.   Find the ones that love your company and want to spend time with you.

Don’t let people use you, then cast you aside.

Learn to say No

Learn to have water off a ducks back so your heart can’t get hurt.

Go dance, have fun and NEVER let anyone put you in a corner or put you down.

Don’t let people suck the goodness out of you and spit you out.  You are worth so much more than that.

Protect that heart of yours… its precious… not to anyone else but you….. Love yourself, you are a good person with so much to give, people will never understand you or love you like you want.  That’s life.